Hi - What you see is what you get... a reasonably intelligent, in fairly good shape, experienced, exceptionally open minded and easy going, relaxed, lifestyle couple who are primarily looking for a unicorn or a couple to play with on a regular basis. Mutual respect and trust built on adult behavior, intellectual discourse and the ability to laugh, and laugh often, is our preferred way of approaching the lifestyle. The type of individual or couple we are seeking should possess a willingness to enjoy the lifestyle's many pleasures. Attitude, outlook and emotional IQ are infinitely more important to us than your looks, race or chronological age as measured by some long dead pope's calendar. We should also note that you don't have to have experience, but if not, you should have a clear idea of what you are getting into as drama is definitely not high on the list of things we enjoy. There is much in the vanilla that we enjoy, i.e. travel, literature, music, theater, cooking, sports, camping, boating, etc. so let's talk about your interests beyond the lifestyle because after all, playtime can't occupy all our time so we have to get along outside the bedroom as well. Although we play at parties, etc., for general security purposes we prefer to exchange face picts via email either here or off-site. We trust you understand. We can promise though that while we are no Ken and Barbie, neither are we closely related to the Shrek family. As for our preferences, we don't believe in ruling too many things out as so much depends on our partners that we like to keep an open mind. We prefer separate rooms but together is fine as well. We are also D&D free and intend to stay that way, he has had a vasectomy, both clean shaven, blah, blah, blah. You get the idea. If you are interested, please, by all means drop us a note. You never know what might happen and the cost in time and effort to compose an email is small compared to the potential payoff for all of us. We look forward to hearing from you. Thanks. R and H