It is so hot when that chemistry finally hits and we are ready to get intimate. Turn on for men who leads me and I follow for the most part. Then once I get to know him, I may take control. Depends on the man and my mood. I totally need my mind and body to be excited/stimulated to get turned on. It is called Foreplay gentlemen. Some of you are out in LA LA land with your crazy emails...writing to me and saying things that do not even come close to my desires. I am finding more than not, a lot of you men are out there are not experienced on how to be romantic and have no idea how to approach a woman. I am not desperate so I just move on. I do not have patience for you if you lack manners and have no courting skills. Some of you think just because this is AFF that we all want exactly the same thing. How is that possible? Dick pics are a HUGE turn off to me and won't NO: married, in a relationship, absolutely no interest in couples, men who are bisexual / have had or desire to be with men or trans, so if these apply to you, please don;t bother contacting me since I will not respond. I will not meet you in a parking lot, sit in your car or you in mine, a park, your home or mine, a hotel, at a retail store or any other location other than a place where there's a drink or two, happy hour, tea or perhaps yogurt. Not interested in men who are visitors and want me to show up at their room. It's not happening! Go ahead and roll your eyes, snicker or say are you kidding me!? I'm not kidding you I'm very upfront in general. If you don't know how to court a woman, in love with me lol before you even meet me...you definitely are going to scare me off. I am not going to exactly tell you how to behave. Communicated enough here to give you heads up. I have been observing Behavior via the emails, conversations via communicating here and how some of you boys, I mean men conduct yourself. I totally understand what the premise of this site is but I not your typical AFF kind of woman. Professionally focused, out of the social loop since Covid and recently venturing out. Divorced 15 years and have had several relationships in life and my fun times too. But been too many years without flirting, TLC or even some petting. I want to start out slow and we'l I will know it when ii's time for our first kiss or... I enjoy rock and roll, Oldies But Goodies, R & B another variety of music just not heavy metal or newer . If I feel a connection, I will agree meeting in public, so we can chit chat, perhaps we hit it off, a conversation about different topics, a little flirting. Let give it a try.

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